Monday, February 27, 2012

More Nilla Life

Benjamin turned 6 last week. He has really grown a lot and matured over the last several months. He has become quite loving toward me. Not that he wasn't loving before, but now, whenever he sees me, he says, "Aunt Hila!"and reaches up for me to pick him up for a hug. He's quite a cutie too.

Here are all the kids with Benjamin's cake. He picked out everything he wanted on his cake.
He's a pretty happy kiddo. It was a simple little party -- just family. And short, because his mom was going to be picking him up to spend time with him on his special day. But it was nice to get to be there and celebrate with him. And I told him that, next week when he's with Brad again, I'll pick him up for either ice cream or frozen yogurt (there's a new place locally where you pick your stuff and pay by weight...).
In other news...

I don't like swing shifts! Okay, so I've never had to work them. But I'm unimpressed with the fact that Jeremy does. Boo! But it sure does help us look forward a lot to our weekends when we can see each other :).

In light of the above, however, I have a list of items I will work on, since my evenings will be lacking Jeremy time. Gotta find something good in a bad situation, right ;)? I will be working on filing all my papers and getting that all organized; the Marvelous Monday Meals cookbook; and organizing my recipes -- and flagging the ones I want to use for future Monday Meals :).

I get highly annoyed when I'm trying to rush out the door with two pans full of food (one covered in melty cheese) and the top pan smashes into the bottom one and makes the foil stick to the cheese and pull that layer off and, grr..... Getting out the door for tonight's Monday Meals was an annoying experience for sure! And it didn't help that I was already unimpressed with the asparagus!

Hmmm... I thought I would have more random stuff to share. Oh! Desiree gave her first talk in Primary a couple weeks ago, and Emily said opening prayer and scripture yesterday. I am glad I get to be in Primary to help them with these firsts :).

Monday, February 20, 2012

Celebrating Those I Love

So last Sunday (the 12th) was the birthday of two of my favorite people in the world. One turned 27. And one turned 7. That would be Christina and Desiree, respectively ;). So following are a few pictures of the celebrations.

Christina and I hit up the mall for gourmet bacon and cheese fries, lemonade, and Baskin Robbins ice cream. And checking out a couple of stores.

Desiree and I hit up Coldstone and she got a special birthday girl waffle cone cup.

In case you don't recognize it from the hideous pizza, this was taken at Chuck E. Cheese. I don't enjoy Chuck E. Cheese. But I love the kids. Above is Autumn (Brad's new step-daughter), Saria, and Benjamin.
Desiree's party was at Chuck E. Cheese and it was a total mad-house!

Emily is adorable.

And she loves her Aunt Hila. And her Aunt Hila loves her.

Blowing out the candles.

And all the kids wanted a picture with Chuck E. Cheese, who brought the cake over. Brad says this rat freaks him out a bit. Haha...




Thursday, February 16, 2012

[I've] Gotta Swim

Sometimes life seems unnecessarily hard.

I am reminded, as I write that sentence, that I set a goal this year to work on being more humble. Why do I keep setting that goal?

Anyway, I have resumed blog-stalking a blog I hadn’t visited in a few years. She is a woman who is married to a 3rd cousin of mine, or something like that. And her blog is inspiring. The focus of her blog is adoption and infertility, because that is her (and her husband’s) trial in this life (or at least it’s one of the big ones). But I always come away from reading her posts with a sense of hope. And a few other good odds and ends, like the song that belongs to this blog post title.

So I am loving that song.

Because right now, I feel like I’m swimming in the dark. I feel like the current is trying to pull me away from my love, and I’m trying to keep my head above. Frankly, I feel like I’m under attack. And that’s probably because I am. I have never experienced such intense attack before in all my life. And while it’s exhausting and, at times, quite discouraging, it tells me something:

It's worth fighting for. And I know in whom I have trusted.

So go ahead, currents. Surround me for a while, dark. Try to tear down the dawn, tidal waves.

But…

“I haven’t come this far to fall off the Earth… [So] I swim for brighter days despite the absence of sun; choking on saltwater… I’m not giving in. I swim.”

Friday, February 10, 2012

According to Facebook...

...I'm engaged. I'm just letting you know. Because it's not even something I wrote.

I woke up this morning, went to the Temple with Jeremy's mom and my mom. Went to Costco. Went to Fred Meyer. Finished up laundry. And while doing laundry, checked my FB (you know, because that's a high priority in life...). I had a ton (read: 10 -- which is a ton for me, since I don't do all that much on facebook) of updates. Imagine my shock when they were all on my new profile picture (and I use the term "new" loosely, since it was posted in December, but I managed to fly under the radar for quite some time) outing me as engaged. Hmmm... A most interesting development ;).

That's what I get for posting about making winter squash rolls!

Just thought I'd keep y'all in the loop. :).

Monday, February 6, 2012

Observations of the VaNILLA Variety

When you make instant hot chocolate, the best part is that chocolatey layer that gathers on top that has some of the chocolate powder still not mixed in :). This is usually indicative that you used too much hot chocolate mix… But can you ever really have too much hot chocolate mix ;)?

Although it is nearly tasteless (to me, at least) once cooked in a chowder, a turnip is not a pleasant smelling thing. I used one for Monday Meals, and I was totally turned off by the smell of the raw turnip. I had my doubts about how this smelly vegetable(?) would influence the chowder and if my efforts for a tasty meal would be tainted by such a stinky thing… Happily they weren’t. But a raw turnip still stinks.

I think it may not be a good sign when your car starts surging while you drive down the road and your "check engine soon" light keeps coming on sooner and sooner. It's probably an even worse sign when you have a hard time starting your car in the morning and when you finally do get it started, it chug-a-lugs for a bit and you give it gas, but really... should you have to do that for a fuel injected vehicle? Actually, I'm seriously asking that question, because what do I know about fuel injection?

Miracles still happen. And I'm thankful I can witness so many of them in my life. I am thankful for my Heavenly Father who blesses me so abundantly.

It is useless to send a woman who has never had a baby out to help a woman who believes her water just broke... Yep, that was one of my grand adventures at church. One of the bishopric members told me one of the sisters in the ward was in the parking lot and had asked for him to send out a woman. I was the first person he saw who didn't appear busy, so he told me about it (I don't think he knew what was going on). So I went out there and she was leaning against her truck and said, "I think my water just broke." Holy. Cow. Like I know what that looks like! (Well, I do now... And who knew you could make that massive of a puddle!?!). So I told her not to be embarrassed (because she said she felt embarrassed) and I hurried in to get the Relief Society president (who thankfully has had 4 children of her own and would know what to do...). Add that to my knowledge about child bearing. I knew about water breaking, but I had no idea as to amounts. Now I've seen it. One good (maybe?) thing about not having babies until later in life is that I get to hear all the facts that nobody seems to share... I hear them from all my friends who have had babies. I'll go ahead and say that most of the stuff I've heard is pretty horrific sounding. But I still want to have babies one day :). I'm pretty positive the joys will far outweigh the grossness and trials.

My little tiny house may be the animal kingdom... So we have aforementioned rodent (who hasn't returned and I'm pretty sure was a squirrel -- the fattest squirrel I've ever seen). And this weekend, we discovered aphids galore on my garlic. We put the garlic outside in hopes it would freeze overnight and kill the aphids. It froze overnight (I know, because I had to scrape my car before leaving for work), so hopefully the aphids bit the dust. Also, I have had slugs manage to find their way in the front door (can you say drafty?). Any bets on the next wild creature to venture inside?

My car runs better after the "service engine soon" light comes on. Jeremy and I learned this when we drove my car to his parents' house. I still have AAA, though, as we expect that car to die any time. We're hoping to put 180K at least on it (it's at almost 178). Getting to 200 would be phenomenal, but that may be a little far-fetched, considering we know the coolant is leaking into the oil.

Listening to the conversations of children is awesome. Here's a conversation involving me, Emily, and Desiree after Sacrament meeting: Emily: "Time to see toys?!?!" (said with great enthusiasm and a smile on her face... Referring to nursery, as that is what she associates with nursery). Me: "No, it's time for Sunbeams! You're my big Sunbeam girl now!" (trying to be equally as enthused about Sunbeams, because she is 3 now, and she is no longer in nursery and therefore there are no longer toys and snacks). Emily looks down solemnly and covers her face with her hands. Desiree, soothingly to her sister: "It's okay Emily. It happened to me too." Hahaha.... Purely awesome. Maybe a "you had to be there moment." But it was it was awesome. Just the way Desiree so matter-of-factly stated it like it was this horrible event we all must pass through. Oh these girls are getting so big. And Emily does great in Sunbeams. She's just still adjusting to not going to nursery, but once she's in her class, she has a grand time.